FREE:  5 Minutes to a Lighter Mental Load: a Decision Filter
 
for the Mom Who Wants More Presence & Peace
If you’re feeling heavy lately, it’s not because you’re doing it wrong. It’s because you’re making a hundred tiny calls before breakfast, and your nervous system is trying to keep up. 

This free guide walks you through a science-backed, simple decision filter so you can quickly: 

 
  • clear the clutter in your head
  • make space for what you value
  • show up with more presence today
Not a new routine. Just a faster way to move forward.
 
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How to Get a Veil to Fly

how to get the veil to fly guide by alyssa rachelle photography

Have you noticed the trend for bridal portraits? You know the one that has the veil flying behind the bride? Oh my does it make for romantic, epic captures! But did you know that only certain veils do this well?

If you’re interested in getting portraits like that but don’t know what kind of veil you should have, I got you. Here are 5 things that get a veil to fly:

  1. Less beading
    1. This is a big one. Having too much beading make a veil heavy and more difficult to toss. The veil will look less natural when it’s tossed, because it’s less likely to open up and flow. Lace is a great alternative to beading if you’re wanting to add detail to your veil.
  2. Longer
    1. Veils that fall at the ground or a couple inches beyond the bridal gown, like chapel veils, or ones that trails behind the bride, like cathedral veils, are the best option.
  3. Soft & light material, like fine tulle
    1. The softer and lighter, the more airborne your veil will go!
  4. One layer
    1. Multiple layers are more challenging to toss together.
  5. Have someone, like your Maid of Honor, available to toss!
    1. Your wedding photographer should have an assistant or second shooter that can toss your veil for them. In the case that they don’t, and you know you want this shot, let someone know and ask them to be present during some of your portrait time.

 

This list is also in order of importance. So, if you find something you love and it doesn’t have all these things, you’ll know where to compromise! Can’t wait to help you get this shot! 🙂

The 10-Minute Reset

You don't need to
overhaul your life.

You need 10 minutes.

You don't need to overhaul your life.
You need 10 minutes.

The simple, step-by-step reset for the mom who's had it with the mental load and an overstimulated nervous system.

You'll get the exact 10-minute flow built by a social worker turned boy mom to help you clear your head, make space for what matters, and feel present with the people you love 💛

How many more afternoons are you willing to lose to the spiral?

I'm Alyssa, your Chattanooga & Cleveland, TN Photographer and systems-obsessed, sanity-saving friend.

I serve families, brands, and events in Chattanooga, Cleveland, and Ooltewah (and yep, even beyond). My style? Light, airy, and joy-packed.

When I’m not behind the camera, I’m helping mamas simplify life with smart systems and realistic routines that actually work.

Around here, it’s all about capturing your story and giving you tools that free up your time.

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